In what ways are we seeking understanding in one another? How do we trust we are doing the best we can in life? All of us – doing the best we can.
There is one quote right now that has become an anchor point for my journey in personal growth. An anchor point can be anything, a poem, quote, word, song lyric, etc., that helps us stay grounded in our truth and authenticity. The following quote is one of those anchors:
People are doing the best they can.
Brené Brown
That one quote by Brené Brown has inspired me to think differently and shift my mindset. It is not the only quote from Brown’s work that has motivated me. Her writings help me shed light on the strength and wonder of life through courage, vulnerability, connection, and wholehearted living.
Doing the Best We Can
Can we trust we are all doing the best we can?
Seek understanding in others from a wider lens of perspective, without judging, recognizing that people are doing the best they can at the moment we encounter them. When we change our assumptions and preconceived notions about others, we move from a place of expectation to a space filled with an open mindset.
This positive construct allows us to recognize that we do not know the whole story of another person, or their inner struggle, or the personal baggage they carry, the worry, or the heaviness of heart within them. Also, we may not agree or like what others are doing.
Be Better Now
Trusting that we are doing the best we can generates compassion. Sometimes that trust fosters an honest conversation where we allow one another to acknowledge that maybe we were not at our best in that particular situation. We know we can be better. I know I am better than that, and I want to work on improving who I am in life. Owning the truth about our genuine self comes from a safe, compassionate relationship such as a spouse, partner, family member, or friend.
No matter, we are challenged to trust that others are doing their best just as we are doing our best at this moment in the day. By doing so, we have the opportunity to embrace a deeper understanding, greater compassion, and even a stronger connection with others.
Why Anchor Points?
Why do I resonate with inspiring quotes from songwriters, poets, and authors, including Brené Brown? Why are they anchor points in my adventure of personal growth?
The resonance is an affirmation that I am moving in the right direction toward deeper authentic living. The anchor points of writers and creators push me to seek a more meaningful life in ordinary ways while affirming a growth mindset. A gentle reminder that I am on track and headed in the right direction.
Sometimes I seek out adult mentors in the writings and creative works of others, both living and deceased, where they coach me, nudge me, and affirm me in keeping focused on my adventure. They are my go-to mentors for advice, re-set, and re-connection with my inner purpose.
These writings either “high-five” my inner spirit or “fist-bump” my shoulder. They direct me to look deeper into what I am doing and the intention behind my actions. These anchor points help steer me in the right direction and encourage me to keep going in the journey of authenticity, vulnerability, and seeking deeper meaning in life with others—all of life, all of it.
Your Turn
How can we encourage one another to keep going on this journey? By trusting that we are all doing the best we can. Period. No judgments or super-hero tactics to help others. Rather, honor one another with trust and respect. We are all doing our best.
Now, this is easier said than done. Trust takes time, along with a lot of repeatable practice in life. Breakthroughs happen when we can land on an anchor point that inspires us and pulls us along with others toward that deeper level of trust, purpose, and meaning.
What anchor points help you stay grounded in trust and connection with others? I welcome your comments on this one. Thanks.
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